Hello buddies, Hope all are doing good !
This is तुमचा blogger Aditya kadam back with another blog.
Intention of writing this blog is to share those mistakes which i made and lost People, Happy moments and so much from my life.
वो कहते है ना कुछ पाने के लिए कुछ खोना पडता है। Yes, कुछ वैसा ही, But I don’t want you to lose anything so here, i am sharing whatever i have learned from my mistakes.
1) Yes for everything.
It happens very often when we don’t want to go for hangout but very few of us manage to say NO. Others say YES being scared of reactions. I also made mistake of saying yes to everything by keeping aside my priority work. But eventually realized and corrected.
Because तुम आज हा बोलोगे, कल हा बोलोग चलो माना परसो भी बोलोगे but one day you will not have option of saying YES, तब क्या करोगे?
We should help others but it is ok to keep our interest first when needed.
Say NO when you want to, Let others respect your decision.
2)Wrong attitude.
Many of us do mistake of saying i can’t but very few ask, How i can ?
Attitude is very powerful weapon. Human with right attitude can achieve anything. What we think about ourself reflect in our attitude and attitude makes impact on confidence.
Losing confidence is like losing bodypart. No one will stay around us if we lose attitude and confidence. Some positive words daily with action and faith can help to build up strong attitude.
Chase your fear क्या होगा either you lose or you win. If won तो क्या बात but if lose तब तो और बढीया। You can enjoy the process again.
3)Emotional dependence.
Being a human being we share our emotions with others but when no one is around to share words then we turn alone. We run to find someone who can listen because no one wants to be alone as it is not our habbit.
Writing can pour out pain from heart and put it on paper. Writing whatever is going in your head can help to overcome.
4) Taking care of someone else business.
ये बहुत interesting है। Some people are made like उनको कितना भी समझाव they will listen once and then repeat same mistake again. We should not get into business of such people. Destiny is decided on karma. It is duty of a person to decide his own karma. Let them perform their duty.
5)Personal and social relationship.
At a certain stage of life we stuck in relationship issues. We make mistake of taking things seriously. Grudges among family and friends get sorted eventually but more we try to solve them more complicated it becomes. Such things end up with mental sickness. We give importance to not important people, We take them seriously.
Being part of society it is ok to think about people but जैसे मै केहता हू वैसे, ” सुनो सबकी लेकिन करो खुदकी “।
I am writing for those who are going to do mistake either today or tomorrow.
But I hope my words will pull them back from doing it.
❤❤Thanks for love and support❤❤
और, बाकी सब बढीया है। 😁😁